Traditional Women vs Independent Women?

 

Traditional Women vs Independent Women?

Traditional men and women are like the two identical wheels of a bicycle that runs smoothly. But a so-called independent woman is like a tractor tyre that won’t fit any bicycle wishing to run smoothly. —Sahil Sharifdin Bhat

It is foolish to say that men are superior to women, but men must be given credit for what they have done and what they are doing for their families. They should not be treated like cups and plates. The misandry promoted through the media must be condemned firmly. To run a home happily, both men and women must contribute to the best of their abilities. Neither men nor women can run the world alone. —Sahil Sharifdin Bhat

She claims to be equal to men, but:

1.  The hospital she was born in was built by men.
2.  The road from the hospital she was born in to the home she was raised in was built by men.
3. The home she was raised in was built by men.
4. The school she studied in was built by men.
5. The school buses she used to go to school were invented by men and driven by men.
6.  She wants to work, but only in air-conditioned offices, not on roads, construction sites or in mines like men. She claims to be differently equal to men. 
7. She uses phrases like "my body, my choice," but expects a man to provide food, clothes, cosmetics and medicine for that body all his life. 😀 
8.  At the time of her marriage, the bills for clothes, jewellery, food, concerts, the marriage hall, etc., were paid by her husband.
9. After marriage, she spent her salary on her cosmetics and clothes and her husband's money on medicine, electricity bills, internet bills, water bills, food and other household needs. She did not wash her husband’s clothes nor vacuum his room. She was an independent woman. 
10. When her car breaks down on the road, she calls her husband. When her husband’s car breaks down, he calls a mechanic. She says she is strong and independent but cries over minor inconveniences and demands emotional support from her husband constantly.
11. She wants to be treated as a queen, but does not want to treat her husband like a king.
12. If she fails in life , she blames patriarchy. If she succeeds, she credits her own effort. 
13. She demands privacy, freedom, and personal space from her husband, but questions him for coming home ten minutes late.
14.  She wants her husband to inherit land and other property from his parents, but she is not willing to serve her parents-in-law. She says that she is not their servant.
15.  At the time of marriage, she does not give a coin to her husband, but at the time of divorce, she asks for half of his property. 
16. She wants to be praised for cooking a single meal but expects the man to work tirelessly all his life without complaint. 
17. She remains in constant touch with her male friends after marriage, but her husband is not allowed to look at her female friends after marriage.
18.  Her husband must not forget their wedding anniversary or her birthday.
19. When she feels bored or tired with her queenly life at her in-laws, she goes to her maiden home and argues with her husband on the phone, ensuring he is not happy.
20. ❤️She wants the man to be her protector in danger, her wallet in expenses, her therapist in emotions, and her entertainer in boredom – all in one – but she is not willing to take a single burden off his shoulders. While she demands everything from a man, she believes offering anything in return is beneath her independence. 
21. When her mistake is brought to light, she says, 'Nobody is perfect' or 'Don’t discuss my past.' But if her husband makes a mistake, she demands a divorce and half of his property.
22. She even goes on solo trips with her husband’s money, but her husband is not allowed to do the same.

In short, she brings just a doughnut to the table of marriage and wants the man to bring a home, land, car, monthly income, love, loyalty, silence, and lots of things. And yet, she is unhappy. The day men grow smarter, they will either marry illiterate traditional women or remain single forever. But they will never marry so-called independent women who claim to be equal to men but are actually parasites on men.

 (Sahil Sharifdin Bhat) 

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 Appendix 

Dear women, a hut with a happy family is a million times more valuable than palaces filled with admirers who crave your body. Don’t fall prey to a kind of capitalism that pays you to look good but doesn’t care how you feel inside. Live to feel happy — not just to make others happy.

Unfortunately, in the pursuit of beauty and societal validation, many women undergo a range of painful, expensive and time-consuming procedures to fit into idealised standards. They remove ribs to achieve an hourglass figure, undergo liposuction to eliminate belly fat and get breast or hip enhancements to look curvier. They remove body hair through waxing, shaving or laser treatments and bleach their skin or use whitening products to appear fairer. They reshape their noses through rhinoplasty, get facelifts to hide signs of ageing and inject Botox or fillers to remove wrinkles and plump their lips or cheeks. Many follow strict diets, wear waist trainers, apply heavy makeup daily, use coloured lenses, apply hair extensions and even risk chemical treatments to straighten or lighten their hair. These practices are often driven not just by personal preference, but by constant pressure from media, beauty influencers and unrealistic standards that equate a woman’s worth with her appearance. In trying to feel beautiful, accepted or admired, they often end up chasing a perfection that keeps shifting. Such procedures cut their lives short and make them go bankrupt.